ELDER CARE
HELP THROUGH LIFE’s TRANSITIONS
WHen LIFE CHANGES, HOME CHANGES
PERSONAL SERVICES FOR OLDER CLIENTELE & THEIR LOVED ONES
ClEANING AFTER ILLNESS OR DISABILITY - DOWNSIZING BEFORE A MOVE - HELP AFTER THE DEATH OF A LONG TERM PARTNER - HELP AFTER THE END OF PROFESSIONAL LIFE - ORGANIZATION FOR YOUR INHERITORS - SWEDISH DEATH CLEANING - ARCHIVAL PHOTO & DOCUMENT HELP - HEIRLOOM ORGANIZATION or storage - HELP WITH ESTABLISHING NEW SYSTEMS FOR OLD AGE AND MORE
IF you are AN ELDER OR A LOVED ONE SEEKING PEACEFUL PASSAGE THROUGH THE GOLDEN YEARS
let me HELP YOU WEAVE A NEW STORY
As we age there are times in life where we face huge changes: illness, death, retirement or moving from a long term residence are experiences that require help to carry us through. Age brings new chapters and a lot of decisons. Many elders are facing these challanges without community or familial support. Sometimes we don’t have loved ones who can take on this traditional work. Sometimes this complex, tiring work can put so much stress on both elder and descendants that is causes more harm than good. As a professional I step into this deeply personal role with the strength required to guide an elder’s emotional journey while holding space for their past. Tending to long timelines is not light work and it has become a part of my business that I hold close to my heart.
Too often I have heard horror stories of large outfit downsizing firms who are booked without the full understanding of an elder. These teams swoop in without honouring the delicate threads that make up ones life and my clients end up deeply traumatized and without their physical memories properly preserved. In the same vein, when many elder clients lose the ability to care for their own home they are treated by cold, medical based cleaning companies who make them feel infantilized and ashamed. My aim is to be a helpful and steadfast personal support worker for any cleaning, organizational or late life planning services. I am comfortable in the face of both illness and death. With the utmost dignity of care, I support elders with honesty, familial knowledge and a listening ear. They know their stories and their things better than anyone else. Allow me to be of service to you or a loved one, while time is on your side.
Here are SOME EXAMPLES OF WHAT I can help with:
Long term or multi-day sessions designed to sort through decades worth of life (week long sprints, monthly appointments etc)
Assistance with deep cleaning after a period of illness, changes to mobility or function
Gentle, judgement free assistance with setting up a home for disabilities
Ongoing personalized domestic care after a transition in ability or function
Assistance sorting & disposing of decades old pantries, closets and storage areas
Organizing so that elders have access to what they need day to day while safely storing items for decedents
Helping elders decide what is worth keeping and for whom
Helping elders decide what is trash, worth donating or worth selling
Helping elder femmes downsize closets and choose what clothes fit their new sense of self
Professional empathic advice on what items may mean the most to your loved ones after death
Support with transitioning a home after the death of a spouse or partner and starting a new chapter
Help and emotional care through pre-death cleaning & organization
Help organizing years of professional documents or other paper filing
Help with cataloging, storing or sorting through family photos
Coordinating with a local junk removal company for collection of donation objects, excessive shedding, garbage and large item removal
and any other needs specific to your home!